What is the poet saying about love and pain ? How does the poet present their ideals ?

In terms of how I view the poem , it’s like he’s has one chance to make it right or he want’s to”get it of his chest ”

I think this is normal in life because when people get older their get wiser and more humble in most case, what he done when he s was young = plus when the poet says in the first line of the peom that “iam very bothered when I think” so it shows that he is still thinking about it even when  years has gone by , so I think it’s important to him and he